Touchdown in Africa!

Touchdown in Africa!

Hi there

Summer for me in Ibiza has come to an end in the most remarkable of ways - with my own retreat which was outstanding and absolutely the next level for us all - followed almost immediately by a retreat for myself, which was simply put, profound!

I believe that deep in our souls we are all seeking the profound; a profound experience of being alive.  And we can have it 🙂

Each time I run a course or coach someone I’m in awe at how quickly we can model and integrate key components of excellence, or the profound, and bring them to do greater work, have greater impact and to deepen the transformation we seek in our lives and the lives of others.

This is certainly what I've been doing over the years - modelling the difference that makes a difference - and the exponential effects of being on this path are truly astonishing.

As the saying goes, there really are no limits but those that we put upon ourselves.  I’ve shared a few books below from my library which are in line with these concepts; they share roadmaps of how we can all move beyond the ordinary and into the world of the extraordinary.  I hope you enjoy them as much as I am...

For now, I've just touched down in Cape Town for another course out here. We’re breaking new ground by bringing together business people and community leaders from townships throughout South Africa for a 5 day deep-dive into the structure of profound and lasting change - which can then ripple out into businesses and communities here in South Africa.  

Who knows what will emerge over the comings days, but what I do know is that when we understand and embrace the deeper layers of reality and our place in the unfolding cosmos - when we get that paradigm shift - irreversible changes are set in motion.  How and why we show up changes.  

And that’s what I’m going to be doing for myself and going to share with others out here over the next week or so - how we can all exponentially accelerate our impact, influence, work or art by daring to lead, ourselves first and foremost! 

A look back at some of my favourite moments from our retreat in Ibiza...

And I’ve just confirmed a couple of NLP Retreats in Ibiza early next year.  The first one is March 2-9th and the second June 1-9th 2019.  Let me know if you’re keen to know more about either..

In a couple of weeks I’m off to Berlin, then the UK, Rome, Goa and Sri Lanka.  And then back to Europe in March next year.  I'm feeling most blessed and in flow at the moment although super sensitive to incongruences when they show up.  Whereas I used to perceive these as problems or things to avoid, I'm now embracing them as profound learning opportunities and gateways to my next level of growth.

If you'd like a piece of that by joining me somewhere on my travels or by having a powerful coaching conversation then do reach out.

And finally, we still have a few places left on my Retreat in Goa this January.  So if you have a sense of wanting more freedom in your life, then I invite you to dive into a profound and transformational experience with me this winter.

3rd - 11th January 2019

(Payment by instalments available on request)

On completion, you'll gain ANLP recognised Practitioner, Master Practitioner or NLP Trainer Certification.

And you'll do all of this in the company of other successful people who have a passion for making a difference in the world today.  We do hope you can join us!

Love, Tristan

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