I’m an NLP Master Trainer and Coach based in Ibiza. I’m also a photographer, author, entrepreneur, motorcycle rider, cat lover and deep-thinker; an explorer of both inner and outer worlds.
The core questions I’m consistently asking and answering through my work is, “Who are we really, why are we here, and how can we live a life of passion, purpose and possibility?”
There is always more untapped potential within us, in each moment. And I’ve made it my life’s mission to release this potential in myself and others.
I was born into complete chaos—thrown into a world of instability, uncertainty, and profound disconnection. My early life (which you can read about in my book here) was a series of disruptions, moving from one extreme to another.
From the rigid expectations of my grandparents boarding school to the dysregulated chaos of my childhood homes, I learned to adapt. But I never felt like I truly belonged—not in my family, not in school, not even within myself.
I wanted freedom, but I didn’t know how to create it without falling into chaos. I wanted connection, but my life had been shaped by disconnection and fear. How?
From my father, who was sent to prison before I was born; from my parents, who left me to be raised by my grandparents who were both Colonels in the army; and from myself lost in the confusion of trying to figure out where I fit in the world, I found myself isolated and disconnected from my authentic truth and a loving world. I was lost!
That’s when I found NLP. And everything changed!
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Thank you, Tristan, for your guidance, your wisdom, and for showing me how to create a ripple effect of transformation in the lives of others. Jo B, Leadership Coach, Consultant
It’s time to stop playing small! I’m stronger, braver and much more confident than before. I can achieve anything I want!
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Jeremy Michaels is a writer, consultant and film-maker. Click here to read about his life-changing experience on one of my retreats.
When I discovered Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), it wasn’t just another personal development tool. It was the key to my freedom.
For the first time, I saw a way to reshape my inner world—to heal from the past, rewire my thinking, and step into a version of myself that I had only glimpsed before. NLP gave me the ability to:
- Turn my trauma into wisdom rather than something that defined me.
- Master my thoughts, emotions, and behaviors instead of feeling trapped by them.
- Create a life of freedom, purpose, and impact—on my own terms.
And perhaps most importantly, it gave me a way to help others do the same. It gave me a sense of purpose and the ability to change the world both within me, and around me.
I threw myself into learning from the best and trained with the likes of Judy de Lozier, Robert Dilts and Tony Robbins. I was certified as an NLP Master Trainer in 2011 by Sue Knight, author of NLP at Work and one of the world’s leading NLP trainers.
I then trained with Gene Early, Sue’s mentor for many years and one of the pioneers who brought NLP to Europe. He remains my mentor and coach today.
And then, I began teaching.
At first, I just wanted to share what had changed my life. But as I worked with more people—coaches, leaders, entrepreneurs, and high-performers—I saw the same patterns. People who were brilliant, successful, and driven on the outside, yet deep down, they felt stuck, disconnected, or like something was missing.
I realised that this was my mission:
To help people break free from limitations, reconnect with their true power, and create extraordinary lives—where the impossible somehow became inevitable.
I’ve developed my own unique way of creating transformational experiences for people around the world. And I train people from NLP Practitioner right the way up to Master Trainer level.
My focus is on creating profound experiences in a way that is real-time and emergent, so that the change we seek, happens now. The implications of this are exponential transformation for individuals, communities and ultimately the world.
By eliciting the structure of excellence in top performers and modelling proven strategies for success, we can create models that work, which are backed up by leading-edge science and that enable each of us to step into our highest potential and calling in life.
I believe the best way to change the world is in concentric circles. As Gandhi said, we must be the change we seek to make in the world. When we start with ourselves and work out from there, we can create remarkable change.
I don’t claim to have all the answers and I still have lots to learn, but I love sharing what I’ve learnt along the way. So if you’re ready to discover how to begin mastering your thinking, emotions, behaviour and life then do get in touch. It would be an honour to support you on your journey.
I don’t just teach NLP. I create transformational experiences — online, in-person, and through my coaching and immersive retreats — that help people shift — from the inside out.
- Coaches & Therapists – To master the art of transformation and create profound results for clients.
- Leaders & Entrepreneurs – To unlock unshakable confidence, lead with impact, and build businesses aligned with their deepest purpose.
- High Achievers Ready for More – To dissolve limitations, find clarity, and step into the next level of success, fulfillment, and freedom.
Through coaching, NLP training, and retreats, I help people:
- Break through fear, self-doubt, and limiting beliefs.
- Find clarity, confidence, and direction in life and business.
- Master the inner game—thoughts, emotions, and behaviors.
- Step into leadership and create massive impact.
- Build a life of freedom, purpose, and authenticity.
As one client put it:
“Tristan helped me see what I couldn’t see in myself. He helped me unlock my potential, step into my power, and finally create the life I’ve been waiting for.”
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