Identity · 10X Leadership · NLP Certification · AI Coaching
August to November 2026 · 16 Participants · Application Only
Soft launch July 2026 — early applicants receive extended access and additional time with Tristan
You’re good at what you do. People respect you. You show up. You deliver.
And something is still missing.
Not on the outside — on the inside. That quiet gap between who you are and who you know you’re capable of being. Between the results you’re creating and the ones you know are possible. And between the life you’re living and the one you can feel calling you.
That gap has a name. And closing it requires more than another strategy, another course or another goal.
It requires a fundamental shift in identity.
This is that shift.
Come Home to Yourself is a 4-month transformation immersion that works at the deepest level – identity, essence, nervous system and purpose activation.
Not just a course or a programme. A container for profound, irreversible transformation.
Over four months, you will:
This is an exponential leap. Not incremental improvement.
The way i describe is like being hit by a tonne of feathers! It’s easy, simple, profound and transformational and a whole new way of thinking. It took this retreat to remember who I am and own it. Aron
You’re a coach, leader, entrepreneur or transformation seeker. You’ve already done plenty of work on yourself. You are successful on the face of it. And you understand the concepts.
But you’ve hit a ceiling.
Maybe the business is doing OK but the joy has gone. Maybe you’re successful on the outside but exhausted on the inside. Maybe you’ve tried everything and can’t figure out why you’re still playing small or repeating patterns. Or perhaps something has shifted — a relationship, a diagnosis, a loss, a realisation — and you know the old operating system no longer works.
You’re not looking for a quick fix this time. You’re ready to invest – seriously – in becoming the person you’re here to be.
If that’s you, you’re in the right place.
Have you ever felt that something is missing? That you are succeeding but that your life is somehow a little bit empty? Then this is where you need to be. Tristan has a way of creating an intimate and trusting space where you can just be yourself and discover what’s missing, and where’s next Sue S
I felt like there was another level to life and I needed to explore it and the journey has been so amazing, the tools and processes, but also the immersive nature and being so connected with people. Ysa
An amazing experience of being with like-minded individuals, just wonderful. It’s broadened the scope of what life can be, the dark days aren’t as dark, the light days are lighter. Steve
Nourishing for the soul, fun, we’ve laughed, some tears, it’s been a joy! I keep thinking it can’t be as good as the last one, but they keep getting better!! Rosie
Stop striving to be someone. Start being who you truly are.
We work at the level of identity — not just behaviour-change, strategy or tactics. We go to the core. We work with your nervous system, your shadow, your purpose and your essential self.
You will come to understand exactly what has been holding you back — and how to let it go. Not through more content or willpower. But through experience, insight, practice and integration.
You’ll develop congruence: the felt sense of being fully aligned — inside and outside, public and private, past and future.
This is the foundation everything else is built on. And we do this within a truly remarkable community.
Not just tools — a new way of being.
You’ll learn NLP at the deepest level and apply it immediately to your life, your relationships, your business and your leadership. Not as theory but as lived experience.
The difference between knowing NLP and being NLP is what this immersion delivers.
You’ll complete a recognised ANLP certification — Practitioner, Master Practitioner, Trainer Training or NLP Master Trainer — depending on where you are and where you want to go.
Human connection is the medicine. AI is the accelerator.
You’ll have access to my custom AI coaching companion — trained specifically on personal transformation, business excellence and developing a 10X mindset and impact. This is not a generic chatbot. It’s a dynamic system built to hold your vision, track your progress and support your ongoing transformation between sessions.
I use this myself. Every morning, on my walk, I check in with my AI coaching companion. I process my insights, refine my thinking, clarify my next steps and create projects that align with my 10x future. It has become as essential to my 10X practice as breath-work, exercise or meditation.
One of my clients used it to move from certifying as an NLP Practitioner to fearlessly quoting a £10k coaching package within less than a year.
This is what becomes possible when human wisdom meets exponential technology.
Have you ever felt that something is missing? That you are succeeding but that your life is somehow a little bit empty? Then this is where you need to be. Tristan has a way of creating an intimate and trusting space where you can just be yourself and discover what’s missing, and where’s next Sue S
I felt like there was another level to life and I needed to explore it and the journey has been so amazing, the tools and processes, but also the immersive nature and being so connected with people. Ysa
An amazing experience of being with like-minded individuals, just wonderful. It’s broadened the scope of what life can be, the dark days aren’t as dark, the light days are lighter. Steve
Nourishing for the soul, fun, we’ve laughed, some tears, it’s been a joy! I keep thinking it can’t be as good as the last one, but they keep getting better!! Rosie
Monthly: Saturday deep-dive immersion (4 hours)
Bi-Monthly: Buddy Coaching call with a peer in your cohort (30+ mins)
Weekly: 3 Wednesday morning Group Coaching calls a month (2 hours)
Always on: Your 24/7 AI coaching companion
Always on: Community platform
Daily: 10x Journal prompt
Full schedule at the bottom of this page.
Life changing. I came here with an intention for a paradigm shift. I got it. Rosie O
I have the power — the power to help myself and others. Now the future is firmly in my hands. Life is one powerful journey. Justin S
I am realising my vision and my dream as we speak. I feel very empowered to contribute and make a difference in the world now. Laetitia M, Founder
It’s been hugely transformative. I feel a lot stronger, a lot calmer. My mind has been decluttered. Chrissy F
It felt like a beautiful safe space where I can be authentic. My heart feels full coming away. I love this journey that we’re all on together. Jodie M, Conscious Accountant
This community is real. The work is soul-satisfying. And the commitment is fun. Jules S, Transformation Coach
Tristan helped me to discover my embodied knowing and connect to my higher self. Vicky T
He has this force to go right into your heart and see who you truly are. An extraordinary experience. Sophie B
Tristan has an incredible ability to hold space, ask the right questions and work his magic. His unique approach has had a profound impact on my personal growth and life. Much of my coaching style is inspired by Tristan. Louise S, NLP Master Trainer, Beyond Belief
What sets him apart is his ability to go beyond teaching concepts — he creates an experiential journey that resonates on a profound level. Jo B, Leadership Coach
July (soft launch) Orientation and Vision
Early applicants begin immediately. We create your 10x future vision — so vivid, so felt, so you — that it becomes your North star.
Month 1 (August, official launch) — 10X Vision and Identity
We deepen your vision and begin activating your 10X identity. You define who you are becoming and map it into milestone outcomes.
Month 2 (September) — 10X Outcomes: Clarity Into Traction
We choose your three 10X outcomes and turn vision into action using the TOTE model. No drift. No overwhelm. Clean, committed focus..
Month 3 (October) — 10X Mindset: Strategic Risk and Resilience
You build the emotional resilience and strategic risk-taking capacity to hold your next level — integrating all five components of a 10X mindset.
Month 4 (November) — 10X Future and Identity Integration: Becoming the Source
Identity drives behaviour. Behaviour drives results. You step into inner authority. The community holds you as you become the source of your own transformation towards your 10x Future.
Core tools and foundations: state management, anchoring, reframing, submodalities, meta-programmes, timeline processes and logical levels of change
Core tools and foundations: modelling excellence, expressing core talents through purpose-led leadership, 10x coaching in action through-time
Core tools and foundations: practice and integrate the 10x model, deliver experiences for the community, activate and 10x your unique purpose
Your transformation has a value. The question is: what is staying where you are, costing you?
One coaching client used this work to move from quoting £10k with anxiety to £25k packages with confidence in just a few short months. Another went from sitting behind her computer to travelling with her family around the world while growing her new coaching practice with ease and joy. Another left corporate life, launched her own practice and described her transition as the most important decision of her life.
The full price of the 10X Online Retreat is £4,000 but for this founding cohort, the investment is currently £2,000. On 15 June 2026, the investment increases to £2,500.
This is my way of honouring the people who move first.
Not because the programme is worth less today. But because the earliest members are helping shape the energy, depth, community and future of my 10X community.
When you join, the programme begins immediately.
You don’t just get the live calls. You get access to the 10X field, the community, your bespoke AI coaching companion, the deeper questions, the preparation and the thinking that begins before our first session.
There are a maximum of 16 places in this cohort.
How to pay
Pay in full: £2,000
Payment plan: 6 monthly payments of £375
Prices increase monthly. Next price increase: 15 June 2026. Payment plans available. All prices include VAT.
Step 1 — Apply
Complete a short application so we can ensure fit and protect the integrity of the container.
Step 2 — Clarity Call
If it’s a potential fit, we’ll have a powerful coaching conversation to confirm timing, outcomes and readiness.
Step 3 — Acceptance and Enrolment
If accepted, you’ll receive onboarding details and immediate access to the community and your custom AI coaching companion.
The quiet misalignment continues.
The version of you that’s almost there stays almost there.
The next chapter waits.
But here’s what I know from two decades of working with people at this threshold: the gap doesn’t close on its own. It requires a decision. A commitment. A container. And a community.
If you can feel you’ve outgrown your current operating system, this is your signal. And we’ve got your back!
Tristan Soames
I built this programme because I needed it myself.
I grew up with no safe community. No healthy model of what belonging could feel like. I spent years isolated, searching. And when I finally found it — in NLP, in the 10X model, in the retreat spaces I stumbled into, I realised this is what I’ve been craving my whole life.
Safety. Connection. Authenticity. Learning. Healing. Together.
That’s what we’re creating here. A space where you can come home to yourself — and create powerfully from that place.
The AI coaching companion isn’t a replacement for human connection. It’s a bridge — available at 3am when the insight lands, on your morning walk when you need clarity, or in the moment between sessions when you need a mirror.
Human connection is the medicine. AI is the accelerator.
If this resonates with you, I’d love to welcome you in.
With love,
Tristan
For those who want the detail — 60 hours total contact time
However, we will be closing the doors to new entrants in July 2026.
Those who sign up early will have more time with us and benefit from additional support.
CURRENT investment: £2,000 up-front (INC VAT)
(monthly payment plans available)
PRICE GOES UP TO £2,500 ON 15TH JUNE
